Heaven or hell? It is your choice where your soul will spend eternity. Everyone has a relationship with God, believe it or not. For any relationship to work, the parties involved must have the desire and put forth the effort to make it do so. God loves us beyond measure. He has provided us with a way to spend eternity with Him in splendor and glory that surpasses the imagination.
That is God's desire and effort. Now it is our turn. We must put forth the effort to follow His detailed instructions and we must show the desire to obtain His promise of a glorious eternity. No one can do it for you, although we can help one another. Eternity is entirely a personal choice--it is your soul's choice.