Hi my name is Deneatrice Millner I am a mother of eight children and three grandchildren, I am married to my wonderful husband Sean Millner and we are a blended family. I discovered about three or four years ago that I needed to write this book but I put it off being afraid to face if people read it what would they say, but I faced my fears and decided to write this book about how I dealt with pain on a daily basis and either I avoided it or drowned in it, either way pain was not designed to make us give up on life, but to bring life out of us. I realized after all the pain I've experienced that pain has made me a stronger woman and it has stretched me in areas I never knew was even there. I never thought I would have written this book but due to the pain of my divorce and going through my surgery. I didn't know I could even write and become an Author and write songs, it pushed out things in me that I didn't realize was there. Sometimes when you have to have relationships end it's not the end of your life, as a matter of fact it's just beginning because some people are lessons in our lives to help us get to our destiny. While I was pushing through my pain through my childhood abuse, my bad relationships, my emotional breakdowns, and my physical pain I realize none it was for nothing, I grew up as a person, and as a woman I started loving me and accepting me for who I am and that is a Prophetess, a Evangelist and Preacher. I now accept who God say that I am. This book will show you how to accept and love you.