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The Forgiving Self

The Road from Resentment to Connection
  • By Robert Karen
$11.79
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In this fascinating book about our struggle to forgive, psychologist and award-winning author Robert Karen uses movies, people in the news, and sessions from his practice to illuminate the conflict between our wish to repair our relationships on one side and our tendency to see ourselves as victims who want revenge on the other.
Why do we harden our hearts, even against those we want to love? Why do we find it so hard to admit being wrong? Why are the worst grudges the ones we hold against ourselves?When we nurse our resentments, Karen says, we are acting from an insecure aspect of the self that harbors unresolved pain from childhood. But we also have a forgiving self which is not compliant or fake, but rather the strongest, most loving part of who we are. Through it, we are able to voice anger without doing damage, to acknowledge our own part in what has gone wrong, to see the flaws in ourselves and others as part of our humanity.
Karen demonstrates how we can move beyond our feelings of being wronged without betraying our legitimate anger and need for repair. The forgiving self, when we are able to locate it, brings relief from compulsive self-hatred and bitterness, and allows for a re-emergence of love."

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  • Additional Details
    • SKU: 9780385488747
    • Manufacturer: Anchor
    • Language of Text: English
    • ISBN 13: 9780385488747
    • Publication Date: 07/01/2003
    • Format: Paperback
    • Author: Robert Karen
    • Page Count: 304
    • Width: 5.29 inches
    • Height: 0.67 inches
    • Length: 7.98 inches
    • Weight: 0.51 pounds
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