YOU CAN GET OUT OF THE BLAME GAME. If you're tired of being hurt by the hurting people in your life, Who's to Blame? will explain the dynamics of victimization, blame, and healing. You'll be given the tools you need to set appropriate boundaries for your relationships with these hurting people. Although no one is to blame in the victimization process, everyone is responsible. It's up to you to gain personal power in your relationships.