He sends you flowers when what you really want is time to talk. She gives you a hug when what you really need is a home-cooked meal The problem isn t your love it s your love language Dr. Gary Chapman reveals how different people express love in different ways. Here, at last, is the key to understanding each other s unique needs. Apply the right principles, learn the right language, and soon you ll know the profound satisfaction and joy of being able to express your love and feeling truly loved in return."